There are many assumptions about parenting arrangements, often based on what we have heard from friends, family, or in the media.
Concerned parents frequently ask us questions like:
“I’ve been the stay-at-home mum, so the kids will just stay with me won’t they?”
“Now that we’ve separated, the kids have to spend 50/50 with each of us don’t they?”
What actually happens will depend on the unique circumstances of your family and the provisions under Australian law.
The Australian Family Law Act sets out a pathway to determine parenting arrangements for children after separation.
The best interest of the child is the most important principle when considering parenting arrangements.
When navigating the legal pathway, there are two main considerations:
It will be assumed that both parents have Equal shared parental responsibility means that both parents have the same duties, powers, responsibilities and authority by law, in relation to their children.equal shared parental responsibility, which must result in the court considering an An order means an order of the court. When an order is made, each person bound by the order must follow it. order of equal time with each parent.
If equal time with each parent is not in the child’s best interest, or if it is not Practicable means:
(a) how far apart the parents live from each other;
(b) the parents' current and future capacity to implement an arrangement for the child spending equal time, or substantial and significant time, with each of the parents;
(c) the parents' current and future capacity to communicate with each other and resolve difficulties that might arise in implementing an arrangement of that kind;
(d) The ability of the parents to co-operate with one another and work together
(e) the impact that an arrangement of that kind would have on the child; and
(e) such other matters as the court considers relevant practicable, then the court must consider Substantial and significant time means:
(a) the time the child spends with the parent includes both:
(i) days that fall on weekends and holidays;
(ii) days that do not fall on weekends and holidays; and
(b) the time the child spends with the parent allows the parent to be involved in:
(i) the child’s daily routine; and
(ii) occasions and events that are of particular significance to the child; and
(c) the time the child spends with the parent allows the child to be involved in occasions and events that are special significant to the parent. substantial and Substantial and significant time means:
(a) the time the child spends with the parent includes both:
(i) days that fall on weekends and holidays;
(ii) days that do not fall on weekends and holidays; and
(b) the time the child spends with the parent allows the parent to be involved in:
(i) the child’s daily routine; and
(ii) occasions and events that are of particular significance to the child; and
(c) the time the child spends with the parent allows the child to be involved in occasions and events that are special significant to the parent. significant time.
Less than substantial and significant time will be ordered by the court if it determines such an arrangement is in the child’s best interest.
If a parent has engaged in family violence or abuse, there is no assumption of equal shared parental responsibility, meaning the court is unlikely to consider placing the child with that parent.
To work out the ‘best interest of the child’, first look at the primary considerations in Step 2.